Tuesday, January 16, 2024

I Want Summer. Now!

I trust you all had a nice Christmas and a safe New Year. I did. I have a pedicure waiting for me! But it’s going to have to get a lot warmer than it is right now before I venture outside in sandals to put on after my toenails are painted. This weather is not what I expected when I moved to the sunny South. And I know it’s not just here but all over the country. I heard that 49 of the 50 states are dealing with this miserable weather; I have not yet heard what that lone state is that’s not suffering from rain, snow, wind, or ice. Is it where you live? If so, good for you! Texas, Florida, California, and 46 other states are all putting up with this &*%#  winter weather.

By now, you may have figured out that I don’t like winter. I grew up in Vermont but I didn’t like winter as a kid, either. My mother pushed me outside, bundled up so tightly I couldn’t move, and said, “Go outside. Play in the snow. Have fun.”

Sure. My sister and I went out and made a snow angel, threw a snowball or two, made a quick snowman, and dug a tunnel through the snow bank the plow had left at the end of our driveway, then banged on the door asking to be let back in. For the five minutes it took us to “play outside,” it had taken an equal amount of time to get snowsuits, boots, hats, gloves, and scarves on, then even more time to get the wet items off. Our wrists and ankles, where snowsuits didn’t quite reach our mittens and boots, were red and stinging from the cold. Our noses were red and running. Our wet outer clothes covered all the floor registers so that in one room you could smell warm wet rubber, in another warm wet wool, and so forth. If there was an unused register, you could find us standing on it in an attempt to get warm.

Fast forward and having lived in Connecticut for thirty years where I still hated winter, I moved to San Diego, CA to get warm. Beautifully, wonderfully, overwhelmingly warm. All year round. You could see people sunbathing in January on the grass in Balboa Park and in February you could sit on the beach at La Jolla Shores and watch the swimmers play in the waves. If you wanted snow, it was just a short ride to the mountains. What I laughed at was seeing a pickup truck driving back into town with a two-foot snowman in the truck bed; a snowman they had made in the Laguna Mountains by scooping up snow with a surfboard and now their creation was melting in the San Diego sun.

You may notice that in my books, whenever the season is winter, I don’t say how much fun the family has outside skiing, sledding, fully enjoying winter. No. I use my imagination a lot when I write, but I can never imagine anything fun, good, or nice about winter. They say, “Write what you know,” so that’s the ONLY time I fully write what I know.

All this to say, I’m ready for summer! I want it and I want it now. I’m tired of being cold. It is, however, a good time to curl up with a good book. I have a few if you need any suggestions. 😊

 

Quote of the Day: "Winter changes into stone the water of heaven and the heart of man.”  Victor Hugo

Friday, December 15, 2023

Mary's Christmas

As we go about our busy preparations for Christmas, I trust we will all stop at one point to reflect on why we celebrate Christmas. Yes, it's about a baby being born, but not just any baby, it was God incarnate. Come to live among us and within us.  In honor of this season, I wrote a song a few years ago, called Mary's Christmas. My son-in-law Curtis Willey added some touches, put it to music, and sang the song. I'm honored to play our song at this time of year. I tried to link the music to this post, but that process is beyond me. Here are the lyrics:

            Mary’s Christmas

 

Mary put the kids to bed

With dreams of Christmas in their head

She kissed their cheeks and smoothed their hair

Turned off the light and crept downstairs

 

The bike was assembled and the parts were all there

The dolls and teacups set out with care

The kids would be happy tomorrow for sure

With Santa’s gifts strewn all over the floor.

 

Mary’s Christmas would not be bright

Since her Jim had gone away to fight

Mary’s Christmas would have to be

The tree, the kids and her memory

 

She looked at the tree she had carefully trimmed

With decorations sent home by Jim

There were handmade angels and cherubs and more

From the different places he had served in the war

 

Now all that was missing besides Jim, she thought

Was the star that should sit away up on top

But she couldn’t reach it so it would just go bare

Without him home to put it there.

 

Mary’s Christmas would not be bright

Since her Jim had gone away to fight

Mary’s Christmas would have to be

The tree, the kids and her memory.

 

Well as always she knelt down to pray

She had a few soft words to say

About a newborn babe and men from afar

Who sent joy to the world neath his guiding star

 

Then she prayed for Jim that he’d be kept safe

So far away in the faraway place

And she prayed for her kids that they would be

As pure and strong as God meant them to be

 

Then she got up and tried the locks

And pulled the blinds and wound the clock

But she said to herself I won’t darken that tree

Until my Jim comes home to me.

 

So a sound at the door made her jump with fright

“What could that be in the middle of this night?”

Then the door opened wide and tears streaked her face

As Jim swept her up in one long embrace

 

He laid out the toys for the kids that he brought

And for Mary a bundle of gifts he had bought

Then he noticed the star and went to the tree

And carefully placed it where it needed to be

 

Mary’s Christmas sure turned bright

Snuggling with Jim neath the twinkling colored lights

Mary’s Christmas was the best she ever had

She had her Jim-- and the kids had their dad.


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Merry Christmas y'all!


Quote of the Day: God bless us everyone! Charles Dickens